Her soul diligently built a wall around her heart. Her soul, her mind, will and emotions, promised her that she will never, ever feel that pain again. Soon the last brick will be in place and she will finally be safe, never hurt again. Her soul is desperate to hurry the wall while her heart is grieving. A heart consumed by joy demands to exhale and give out and will not allow a wall to be built. But if the wall is completely built then the joy dies within the soul's shelter.
The soul hates the heart, with a great passion. Though the soul was designed to follow and serve the heart, the soul tries to lead again and again.
It is only in relationship with other heart people that we can stay free of our own soul's tyranny.